Had a long and interesting discussion with one of my closest friends yesterday,
Realized that she’s not oblivious…at all, people just don’t tell her anything. Realized that we share the same beliefs, philosophy, insights, observations; she just doesn’t bother to say anything and I do.
We always have good talks!
OH GAWD K8 OH GAWD WHY THAT’S NOT EVEN ME THAT’S YOU WHY DID YOU DO THAT. WHY.
So I was thinking about it,
and I wondered how differently I treat close friends to others. I thought of the margin of difference between both.
I know I say I hate picking favorites,
but I can’t help but favor some over others. HEH how hypocritical, but I’ve realized that it’s almost inevitable…for me at least.
If you have a problem with someone, they know, but they choose to keep it in the back of their head. They’re waiting for someone to prove them wrong or right. They’re unsure about it.
You need to fix that for them. That’s what I realized yesterday.
Know who to keep close. Learn to see through artificial personalities.
That is all.
When I get nice notes from people,
I love to reread them over, and over, and over…and over again. I don’t know, there’s no words to express how appreciative I get when I read how sweet and thoughtful they are. I guess it’s a sign that I’ve been doing things right, which is what keeps me going!
